I was in my last semester of law school when I met a woman in my class. Her name was Olivia. She was a beautiful, petite, naturally blond woman in her 30th, with quiet aristocratism and a calming energy. She had both strength and softness. Olivia shared a story with me; her voice was tired but with hidden hope.
“I have a husband… we met when we were very young. My parents were divorced. He was supportive and encouraging when I decided to go to law school. But when I got pregnant for the first two times, he told me to have an abortion, because he was building a business and we did not have time for kids. I prayed to God to forgive me when I went to do those abortions. He was very demanding and controlling from the beginning, but I liked it. I thought this was how a real man should be… after all, he protected my mom and me.”
She paused.
“He always controlled the money. When I got pregnant for the third time this year, he said he wanted a child. I lost the child due to miscarriage… he became enraged with me. He called me names at home but smiled with our friends. I wonder, sometimes, if he wants a child as a way to keep me dependent on him.”
She showed me a picture of her man. A dark-haired, brown-eyed, tall and handsome, charismatic and fit man. If she hadn’t told me what he had done to her, I would’ve never guessed he was abusive.
“He likes hunting,” she added, smiling.
“So yes, I can not wait to graduate and start my law practice. When I get enough money, I will leave him. But… not for now. My mom would be against it; she likes him a lot. Sometimes, I feel like she likes him more than me.”
This story is based on real events. Names and identifying details have been changed to protect privacy. I never share a client’s story without explicit written permission.
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